Alzheimer’s Tool Helps Families Cope.

[ Alzheimer’s Families: I received this incredible letter from a new subscriber. She wanted to help spread the news about how Presto helps her family cope with her Mom’s disease and allowed me to publish it here. — Peter Radsliff, PrestoCEO ]

Dear Mr. Radsliff:

With an aging mother in the early stages of Alzheimer’s it’s become increasingly important to find ways to connect with her and engage her in our lives, no matter where we are in the world. While we were at ISE last week in Amsterdam, I was able to do just that.

Thanks to Presto, Mom got automatically printed emails with pictures of the various sights we saw and I was able to schedule a few notes ahead of time just to say Hi and to tell her we were thinking of her during trade show days when I knew I wouldn’t have time to check in with her. The best part? She was able to rest assured knowing we were safe but having fun and she felt like she was part of the trip if even in a small way.

Alzheimer's tool Presto emailPresto is wonderful. I simply can’t say enough about the service, products, and total ease of use. Mom’s in no way technical but this was the easiest thing to implement and the best way to keep her in touch with the family. Being one who has an intense eye for aesthetics and that doesn’t stand for clutter, the machine had to be small to pass muster. Honestly, if it were clunky in any way, it would be out the door just as many other tech notions before it had gone. Mom’s a stickler for detail. Fitting the bill perfectly, the Presto Printing Mailbox is small enough to inconspicuously sit under her bed, out of sight from all who enter her space. It automatically prints her emails on a predetermined schedule that’s convenient for her. We didn’t want the sound of pages printing to awaken her but we wanted her to get updates throughout the day if possible. Setup as a recurring order, Presto automatically sends mom new ink and paper when they are running low. I administer everything in the cloud and get confirmation of everything that’s sent to her so I know nothing unauthorized is slipping through (it’s a totally secure system).

To help her as she ages, we sent her a three-ring binder so she can put each printed Email into it in order, giving her a book she can look back through to keep track of time, places, people, and the like. It’s our way of helping her remember without her feeling uncomfortable for the things she’s forgotten or forgetting.

Alzheimer's tool used by patient daughter for her mom.To put it succinctly, Presto is a simple, secure, and simply wonderful way to give aging parents a new view to the outside world. If you’ve got aging folks in your life, give Presto a try!

— Katye McGregor Bennett

[ Thanks, Katye, it’s great to know how Presto is helping 
families in different ways. In honor of your Mom and for all the other Mothers out there, we have a special offer for Mother’s Day. — Peter Radsliff, PrestoCEO ]


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“My Email Machine Gives Me A Lift Every Day”

Email Machine Delivers Presto Mail Without a Computer

Mary Jane Anderson is 92.
She is a computer user.
She searches on the web.
She video chats via Skype with her 6 kids and 13 grandkids who live all over the world.
And she told me she really loves getting photos on her Presto ‘email machine’ because she doesn’t even need to touch her PC.

I recently asked Mary Jane about her computer habits and why her Presto ‘email machine’ was so important to her. She told me, “I get photos from the kids and grandkids at all times of the day. They really give me a lift.

When I asked her how often she goes into email on her computer, she said, “Oh…about every other week.” When I asked her if she knew how to print a color photo from her PC, she told me, “No, not really.

Paper vs. Screen
As we have heard from many other Presto customers, Mary Jane keeps her Presto Mail in a three-ring binder where she can go back and look at the different messages and photos from her family time and again. And that points out the biggest difference between email on a computer or tablet and email from a Presto ‘email machine.’ Most of us who live in the digital world treat email as a fleeting communication. Something to be deleted or filed after reading. But the colorful, high-resolution images and messages that print out from a Presto Printing Mailbox are perceived differently by Mary Jane and the tens of thousands of others like her who have enjoyed Presto since it debuted in 2006. Printouts from the Presto email machine are perceived as treasured keepsakes, something to be saved, collected and reminisced over, time after time. Mary Jane’s binder is more like a photo album than an email repository.

Presto Email Machine

Even though Mary Jane’s whole family attaches photos to email and tags Facebook photos for delivery via Presto, she receives full-color, correctly paginated paper letters that are automatically delivered within hours of sending. This makes communication easy for Mary Jane’s family without creating any hassle for her – like having letters delivered by a postal carrier…only faster.

In a world that is getting increasingly complicated, sometimes the best solution is the simplest one. Mary Jane’s Presto email machine is one of those simple pleasures, one that she enjoys every day.

Email Machine by Presto


Presto “How To” #3: Using PrestoConnect to Help Family Caregivers

Family Caregivers

If you help take care of a parent or other family member, you are one of millions of American family caregivers. When Presto computerless email came to market in 2006, it was designed to be an email and photo sharing service for seniors—mostly for the purpose of family fun. But in August of 2008, we unveiled PrestoConnect, and transformed Presto into the first communications platform for family caregivers ( see PrestoConnect announced on The Martha Stewart Show ). With the launch of PrestoConnect, we enabled family caregivers to radically optimize their time and activities to make their tasks easier and more effective:

PrestoConnect allows family caregivers to have a bird’s eye view of the communications going on between family, friends, care professionals and the person being cared for. PrestoConnect does not allow the Presto Account Manager to read these private messages or see any photos or documents that were delivered. But by being able to gauge the volume and frequency of digital connections the person under care is experiencing, their overall socialization profile can be monitored and managed. Here are a few socialization benefits enabled by PrestoConnect:

• Keep Caregiving Email Separate – Composing and sending messages from within PrestoConnect web mail helps keep your caregiving messages separate from your other email accounts, making it easier to stay on top of socialization for your loved one. Seeing them all in one place, which have printed and which are pending, further helps family caregivers do their tasks with a minimum of hassle. Note: using PrestoConnect web mail is not mandatory, any email account from an approved sender can deliver messages to your Presto user.

• Adding More Presto Users  – In PrestoConnect, you can add four additional names and Presto Mail addresses to each Printing Mailbox (for a total of five). This allows you to include others who may live in the same location as the Printing Mailbox, adding to their social needs. Or, you can create a different email “alias” for your current Presto user to evoke a different persona—think, “”

Presto Newsstand PuzzlesSTIMULATION
The Presto Mail service includes the Presto Newsstand, a library of hundreds of games, puzzles, comics, articles and news sources to keep your Presto user’s brain active and engaged. Fifteen of the subscriptions are free, and hundreds more are extremely low cost, with most being about ten dollars a year. PrestoConnect provides links to manage both free and paid subscriptions, making it easy to browse titles and add or delete subscriptions. We have heard from thousands of customers that the crossword, sudoku, jumble and bananagram puzzles provide a lot of enjoyment for their Presto user. Paid subscriptions can be “gifted” by any approved sender by visiting allowing other family members to aid in the effort to keep loved ones stimulated.    

Presto Newsstand

One of the best benefits for family caregivers is the ability PrestoConnect provides to pre-schedule messages of different types for future delivery. Here are the main benefits:

• Socialization on Your Schedule – Many family caregivers are busy raising their own kids and find that the time they have available to help with issues concerning mom and dad is limited. PrestoConnect allows 1) messages, 2) reminders and 3) to-do lists to be created and scheduled for later or recurring delivery. Many account managers have told us that they sit down each Sunday evening to create and schedule the emails, photos, and reminders for their Presto user to receive the upcoming week. PrestoConnect takes over after that, delivering social engagement when scheduled while freeing up the family caregiver to attend to other things.

Presto Doctor Appointment Reminder• Recurring Reminders and To-Do Lists – Many Presto account managers also use PrestoConnect to automate things that need to happen throughout the year. Examples of pre-scheduled and recurring reminder printouts include:
– A hairdresser appointment reminder scheduled for every third Wednesday
– A one-time reminder set to print the day before a doctor’s appointment in two weeks
– Annual reminders a week prior to each grandchild’s birthday
– A once per month, around the house to-do list.
All of these things can be scheduled once and forgotten, plus the family caregiver can cc: themselves so they receive the reminder as well!

Presto DailySmile Winter• Automated Daily Photos – Presto provides a free companion service to all account managers and approved senders that allows groups of photos to be uploaded to a queue, which are then delivered one-a-day or whichever frequency is chosen. This free companion service is called Presto DailySmile and it can be found on the web at or as an application within Facebook. Families find Presto DailySmile tremendously helpful because it allows up to a years worth of photos at a time to be uploaded from a computer or tagged in Facebook which can then be delivered autonomously throughout the year. Pertinent captions can be added (or not) and each page is delivered on an attractive template that is changed with the seasons. Presto DailySmile is especially helpful with grandkids who typically don’t use email as much as other communication methods. They use the Presto DailySmile Facebook application to automate their engagement with the grandparents making everybody happy.

Presto Medication ReminderAn account manager taught us how he uses Presto to send medication reminders to his mother every day. This is a simple procedure that is a powerful aid for helping his mother remember to take her meds, and to log that they have been taken. It takes a little bit of skill with a computer, and then PrestoConnect does the rest. This is how he did it:
– Take a digital photo of the different pills in the correct doses (or find them online)
– Create a PrestoConnect To-Do List with one pill name and dose for each task
– Attach the digital photo of the pills
– Schedule the To-Do List as a recurring reminder matching the frequency with which the meds need to be taken.
– Because PrestoConnect allows you to also choose when the Printing Mailbox dials in to retrieve mail, you can schedule the medication reminders to coincide with the correct print schedule to most closely match the doctor’s prescription orders.

The account manager that came up with this idea delivered the medication reminder he created every day in the morning. When it was delivered daily as a Presto Mail printout, it functioned not only as a reminder when it arrived, his Presto user could check off the pills as they were taken and save the page as a log of which pills were taken. And because each page is date stamped, this helped users remember that had taken their pills that day and also provided a record for hired in-home caregivers.

Note: Because Presto is a system that relies on paper, ink and a printer, it should not be relied on as a faultless medication reminder system. But as an additional aid, it has been very helpful to Presto subscribers over time.

A less obvious but extremely powerful benefit of Presto is how it gets the rest of the family involved in helping care for a loved one without feeling like they are being asked to do it. Common ways of enlisting family help include:
– An uncle decides to pay for Presto’s automatic ink & paper replenishment subscription
– A nephew agrees to be responsible for keeping the DailySmile queue full of photos
– A sibling “gifts” a Presto Newsstand subscription to the condensed New York Times
– A granddaughter decides to send weekly PDF articles of favorite recipes
A handy tool for Presto account managers is a “nudge” link on PrestoConnect which automates the sending of an email reminder to approved senders who have not participated in a while.

There is no end to the benefits PrestoConnect can bring to family caregivers. All it takes is a little bit of learning coupled with creativity to put Presto to work on your behalf.

70% age 70+ have “no interest” in hi-tech communication gadgets.

Thinking of getting grandma or grandpa a Kindle, iPad, iPhone or laptop so they can Skype or Facetime with the grandkids? Think again. Almost 70% of over 1,600 respondents 70+ years old said they had “no interest” in those devices in a survey conducted by Link•Age, a senior living think tank and trade association. Those percentages extrapolate to over 19 million Americans who are saying “meh” to tech.

70% age 70+ show "no interest" in tech

Link-to-SurveyBut why?
So many of us today can’t live without emailing, texting, chatting, instant messaging, Instagram-ing, Facebook-ing and mobile phoning 24/7. So why have the vast majority our grandparents, and even many parents opted out? Are they Luddites or technophobes? Are these members of society “afraid” of today’s techie world?

Is it them?
Remember, those who decided to say “no thanks” to today’s tech were the same ones who built America’s telephony and electric grid infrastructure. They successfully transitioned from a horse on the farm to an automobile on the interstate. In fact, they built the interstate. They were the ones who transitioned from sailing on ships to go abroad, to flying on planes around the globe. Oh, and by the way, they won two world wars while they were at it, building 2,700 Liberty Ships, 12,000 B17s, and 49,000 Sherman tanks along the way. Today we tend to think of microprocessors as representing the peak of technology in all of our fancy, pocketable gadgets. But don’t forget, our grandparents developed nuclear power and the atomic bomb, preserving our nation’s freedom in the process.

100 years of innovation

Is it us?
Could it be that the value of today’s tech-infused lifestyle hasn’t merely been overlooked by the GI Generation, but consciously passed over? Could it be that the modern tech learning curve is just too steep for those who retired before personal computers became de rigueur? Or is it that the cost and hassle to learn today’s technology has not proven to be important enough to those who were brought up with a different set of values?

What to do?
Should people force the issue by giving a computer, tablet or smartphone to a parent or grandparent who doesn’t want it, thereby wasting money and creating the need to provide “tech support.” Would it be better to have a method where extended family members could use the communication technologies of their choosing, while their parents or grandparents use the technology of their own choice? Is there a technology available that could manage the translation between these two different users?

Specially designed solution provides best of both worlds
What if you could tap out an email from your Android phone, or transmit a digital photo from an iPad, and have it arrive at your grandparent’s house in a few hours—even though your grandparents don’t have a computer or Internet service? How could this even be possible? Would octocopters pick up photos from an distribution center and drop them on your grandparent’s doorstep?

Presto Printing Mailbox

In 2006 (well before commercial drones) Hewlett-Packard developed a special printer that didn’t need a computer or Internet connection. It connects to a virtual computer in the “cloud” via the user’s existing telephone line. This cloud service provides an email address to subscribers and allows only approved senders to deliver messages and photos to the machine. It is almost like a high-resolution, full-color “fax machine,” except it doesn’t ring and instead autonomously dials out to retrieve mail five times a day.

The best kept secret
HP never promoted the printer or service themselves, possibly their focus was on other products. The cloud service company that invented the concept is Presto, which has been located in Silicon Valley since 2004 and has provided almost 500,000 family members with the ability to connect digitally with their offline loved ones.

Map of Presto users in the US

Map of Presto users in the U.S.

Sexy secret technology
These days, most people consider thumbprint-activated smartphones or paper-thin tablets to be “sexy.” But the sexiest technology is one that provides the highest value with a stellar user experience for everyone involved. HP and Presto’s solution is still the only one available that allows communicators to send how they wish—by email—and recipients to receive how they wish—by letter—without any incoming ringing, or need to touch any buttons or screens. An even more unique and “sexy” user-experience was discovered by HP and Presto during early field testing: users wanted to reply by telephone, not digitally. This allowed the machine to be much less complicated and less expensive than it would have been otherwise.

The need for this technology is great. The nearly 20 million Americans who’ve decided they have “no interest” in electronic communications gadgets don’t know they can connect digitally to family any other way.

Can This “Secret” Technology Help Someone In Your Family? Click Here >>

Presto “How To” #2: Getting the Rest of the Family to Send Presto Mail

As wonderful as the Presto system is, if no one sends any mail to your Presto user, it won’t provide nearly as much value as it could. We have developed supplements to family emails, but those will be covered in a different section. This Presto “How To” is all about getting the extended family and friends to engage with your Presto user by sending mail via Presto. As the Account Manager, if you follow these four simple steps, you can greatly improve the life of your Presto user while making your life easier as well.


1. INVITE  >  2. MONITOR  >  3. NUDGE  >  4. REPEAT
The single most important thing you can do as a Presto Account Manager is ensure the right people are added to the approved sender list for your Presto user. These approved senders—whom we call “Presto Friends”—are the only ones whose emails will be allowed to get through the system. There are three ways to add people to the Presto Friends list:

Presto Friends

Three Ways to Add Presto Friends:

i. Add them online
 – Presto Account Managers chose a username and password when signing up for the Presto Mail service. This allows them to access the PrestoConnect account manager website located at: To add a friend or family member to a user’s Presto Friends list, sign in to PrestoConnect, and select “Add a friend” in the teal “Friends” section. On the window that opens, be sure to fill out as much of the information as you can because many times, people use more than one email address to send email to their Presto user (i.e. work, personal, gmail, etc.). Try to also input their name and phone numbers which will be printed on the top of each Presto Mail printout to facilitate callbacks.

PrestoConnect Friends Card Request

ii. Call Presto and have us add them for you – Presto Users and Account Managers can also call Presto CustomerCare toll-free at 1(800) 919-3199 between the hours of 6:30am—3:30pm Pacific, Mon.—Fri. Names on the Presto Friends list can be added or deleted, or contact information can be updated after Presto users or account managers verify their identity to the Presto CustomerCare agent.

iii. Let family and friends add themselves – When the Printing Mailbox first connected with the Presto Mail service, it printed out a welcome packet and a sheet of “Presto Friends Cards.” These are incredibly handy items, printed 8 to a page like business cards, ready to be cut apart with scissors.

Presto Friends Cards

On each card, instructions and a unique, one-time security code are printed that allow someone to add themselves to your Presto user’s approved sender list. These cards are great for giving to a trusted service professional’s office (i.e. doctor, handyman, caregiving company, retirement community office, or neighbor) so that they can send written notifications, instructions or announcements to your Presto user via email. Another sheet of Friends Cards can be forced to print by calling Presto CustomerCare or by signing on to: PrestoConnect and then clicking on Manage Friends and look for the underlined link in the top paragraph: click on: “Presto Friends Card.”   


>  2. MONITOR  >  3. NUDGE  >  4. REPEAT

As Presto Account Manager, you have the unique ability to see who is sending mail to your Presto user and how often. You cannot read those private messages, but you can see the frequency statistics by visiting: PrestoConnect > View Activity Details > Friends Activity or > Printing Mailbox Activity. On either page, you will see all of the approved senders and how many emails they have sent over the last 30 days. In the Printing Mailbox Activity page, you will also see all printouts of subscription pages. This will give you an overview of how digitally connected your Presto user has become, or if change happens over time.

>  2. MONITOR  >  3. NUDGE  >  4. REPEAT

Everyone needs a good kick in the rear now and then. Presto makes that easy by putting a “nudge” link right next to the activity report for each approved sender. Clicking “nudge” auto-composes an email addressed to the corresponding Presto Friend with a canned message of encouragement. Or, you can change the message to personalize it before sending.

Presto Nudge feature

>  2. MONITOR  >  3. NUDGE  >  4. REPEAT

For Presto families, it seems that: “The price of family connection is eternal vigilance.” As the Presto Account Manager, you are in a unique position to have situational awareness of your Presto user’s online socialization. The best thing to do is set a reminder for yourself once a month on a calendar or in your smart phone to review the Presto Friends List and update any contact info changes, review how many emails have been delivered and from who, and nudge those who need nudging. This simple task performed a dozen times a year will go a long way to improving the live of your Presto user. It will also help ease the job of being a family caregiver just a little by spreading around the task of keeping mom or dad’s in the know about family events to everyone in the family.

Bottom Line: no one in your Presto user’s friends and family network needs to know that Presto even exists. They just need to know your mom or dad’s Presto-provided email address. Once they do—and once the approved senders’ email addresses are put into the Presto system—all anyone needs to do is…send an email…with a photo…or an occasional PDF document. Presto is like leading the proverbial horse to water, but you can’t make him email grandma. Encourage everyone to put your Presto users on their family distribution lists. Have the local senior center email announcements via Presto. And be sure to remind people to keep mom and dad in the electronic family loop. They may not have text messaging, Skype, or Facebook, but grandma and grandpa now have email without any of the hassle or cost of a computer and Internet connection.

Presto “How To” #1: Signing Up for a Presto Mail Subscription

It is extremely easy to sign up for Presto Mail service, but first, here are a few important things to know:
• There are no “contracts” needed with Presto [ pricing ]
• Every Presto Mail subscription comes with a 60-day money back guarantee
• Presto was founded in 2004 and has an A+ rating with the Better Business Bureau®
• If you have any questions, call us: [ contact info ]

Signing onto PrestoConnect

Two ways to sign up:
You can sign up for a Presto Mail service subscription separately or when you purchase the Presto Printing Mailbox, by…
1. Signing Up Online
2. Or calling us toll-free at 1 (800) 591-9827 between 6:30am–3:30pm, M–F

Helpful things to have before sign-up:
• Deciding upon a personal email address (i.e.
• Knowing the phone number that the Presto Printing Mailbox will be connected to
• Being ready to choose a user name and password for online Account Manager access
• Having the email addresses of people you want to be able to authorize (or do this later)

What to do after sign-up:
The credit card you use to pay for the subscription won’t be charged until the Presto Printing Mailbox successfully connects to the Presto Mail service. It is helpful to do the following two things after you sign up for service:

1. Log into the PrestoConnect Account Manager web page and do the following:
• Select “Manage Preferences” and select an everyday template for mail printouts.
• While there, you can select the text size (i.e. medium, large, or larger)
• Next, go back to the home page and select “Manage Free Subscriptions
• Select any of the 15 free choices your mailbox user might enjoy (hint: favorites include The Best of Andy Rooney, Crossword, Jumble, and Sudoku).
• Go back to the home page, and while you’re at it, select “Manage Paid Subscriptions” and see if your user would enjoy any of the over 200 articles, comics, news or games/puzzles. Most are only $10/year and they provide great engagement all year long.

2. Send your first email:
Send an email with attached photo (i.e. maybe of the grandkids) to the Printing Mailbox which will print out after the welcome sheets when it is first plugged in. This has been proven to be the best way to show the value of Presto Mail to the person you bought the Printing Mailbox for.

Presto Mail printouts

That’s probably enough for now. See other Presto “How To” topics to learn how to get the most from your Presto Mail subscription.

A conversation with a Presto subscriber


Even though I am CEO of Presto, sometimes I struggle to find the right words to communicate the value that Presto computerless email provides to families. Two weeks ago on a Sunday evening, I logged onto Facebook and saw that I had a message from a Presto subscriber. The rest of this blog post is that conversation, printed here with her permission. — Peter Radsliff, PrestoCEO

Conversation started November 10

11/10, 7:00pm 

Peter, I will sadly no longer be a Presto customer as my father, 89, passed away in 2012 and my mother, 88, died just one week ago. I remain grateful, however, for all the help you and Charlie gave me during the 5 years that I was a customer. I sent literally at least 2,000 emails during that time! I will remain a big Presto printer fan.

11/10, 8:47pm 

Dear Keara, I am SO sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with her, you and your family. I am glad that Presto could bring some happiness into your parent’s lives. And thank you also for your kind words to others about Presto. Please feel free to contact me anytime, and let me know if there is ever anything I can do for you. Would you like me to initiate cancellation of your Presto service so you don’t need to call?

11/10, 8:52pm 

Thank you very much, Peter, for your kind words. I truly appreciate them. Actually I had known for the past two months that my mother would never be able to return to independent living and so had asked Charlie to cancel my service at that time, which he kindly did. I must say also that Charlie was always terrific to me, helping out so politely any time there was a problem of any kind. And again, Presto was such a big part of my parents’ and my own life for all these five long years. I was always on the lookout for a funny or beautiful or interesting picture to send them. I will always be a big Presto supporter! Thank you again for your sympathy.

11/10, 8:57pm 

Of course, Keara. It’s people like you, and your mom and dad that are the reason I get up and go to work at Presto every day.

11/10, 8:59pm 

I’ve always felt that Presto was pretty unique because it’s main purpose was basically one of kindness. It’s hard to think of anything else that exists just for that reason. I’m very glad to think that your work is rewarding to you for that very reason.

11/10, 9:02pm 

Also, I do feel proud of the many uses to which I was able to put the printer — enlarging sports articles for my father; sending reminders to my mother; not just family photos but all kinds of pictures that I found online and sent because they were funny or sweet or interesting or beautiful. At holiday time I sent lots of sacred art, along with explanations of the different symbolisms. It turned out to be very educational for all of us!

11/10, 9:03pm

Primarily, though, it was a way of providing them with proof, almost every day, that I was thinking of them. The dailiness of it was so important.

11/10, 9:20pm

Thanks for those insights. It helps me better understand Presto’s value.

11/10, 9:27pm 

My pleasure.

11/10, 9:30pm

In my case, I certainly did put the printer to a very wide variety of purposes. As just one more example – when my parents could no longer go to church on Sundays, I would select a church that was interesting for one reason or another and send them photos of that church on Sundays. In this way, we all came to learn a lot about some of the most historical churches in America.

11/10, 9:32pm

What a fabulous idea that is!

11/10, 9:33pm

Thank you.  It was pretty cool, if I do say so myself.

11/10, 9:36pm

Another anecdote…my father was confined to his room in a nursing home for almost four years, and my mother would spend the day in that room with him. (We have been through some quite difficult times.) I would send my mother new photos of family and relatives and friends, but also would find photos of people and places she associated with her childhood online. She would cut these photos out of the emails and pin them up around my father’s room. Eventually she had covered the entire door to the room with these photos printed out on the Presto printer!  They gave her a kind of comfort, and gave both us and any guests something fun to talk about.

11/10, 9:37pm

Again, I want to stress that all these photos came through Presto emails.

11/10, 9:38pm 

The real magic here is you being an amazing daughter.

11/10, 9:39pm 

Another time the Presto printer kind of saved us in a small emergency. My sister had made a special trip to help my mother address and sign all her Christmas cards, of which she always sent a great many. My sister was a bit panicked because she could not find the address list. I had an address list but was rather far away. So I just sent the address list by means of the printer — voila! the problem was solved.

11/10, 9:39pm 


11/10, 9:40pm 

Well, that is very kind of you. There was genuine magic, though. For years my parents and I had had quite a difficult relationship. The printer enabled me to show them, day after day, that I cared for them. This was good for me, and good for them.

11/10, 9:41pm 

Yes, I have heard often that having a communication medium that allows non-real time communication (i.e. not phone or in person) sometime facilitates relationship building. Like writing letters, but faster


11/10, 9:42pm 

One more thought that you might find of some interest — my emails were written mostly at night, often just before I went to bed. It became a kind of Zen practice, or almost a prayer, to compose an email, almost always with one or more pictures, for them each night. Like a blessing on them before going to bed.  Because it was a loving message, it did me good too.

11/10, 9:42pm 

Yes, faster but also with less potential for conflict.

11/10, 9:43pm 

Wow. I’ve never heard that before, the nighttime ritual. Very powerful. Thank you for sharing.

11/10, 9:50pm 

Peter, it’s late here and I’ll be signing off now.  I’ve enjoyed our exchange very much and really appreciate the opportunity to talk with you as we have. Wishing many blessings on you and all your undertakings.

11/10, 9:51pm

Thank you, Keara. Let’s do stay in touch.